Seven Sexy Essential Oils + Bonus Recipe

Updated February 13th, 2020

Seven sexy oils that can SPICE UP your sex-life!

Naturally, people are looking for the inside scoop on what’s “O”mazing!  

Are you looking for an over the moon “Love Potion”?  February is 'Love Month' and what a great time to go 'love wild' with your partner. Intimacy is an amazing way to experience essential oils in a very sensual way and one of my greatest “hits” has been these essential oil secrets from my friend Delmar. This woman rocks a class that teaches you what natural options you have to support you in the bedroom.  

I have added to what Delmar has taught me, and am happily passing them onto you.

So, to get the big “Ō” and enjoy stimulations, where do you apply these sexy oils and which ones are my favorites?!? 

I’ll tell you now.

Helping women achieve their ultimate satisfaction is what’s on most of our partner's minds. So, I’ve curated the top flower and spice recipes here with directions. The rest ladies and gentlemen is up to you and your wildest dreams.

Think of it this way, you’re using essential oils, massage oils and personal lubricants on delicate body parts, right? You’re going to want to use the purest essential oils in the world. That happens to be doTERRA, hands down.

The skin is the largest organ of our body, what we put on our skin gets absorbed into the bloodstream. That's why it’s critical to use the very best, especially when things get really spicy!

OK, I hear you! I know you’re super excited to get this party started and the engine humming. Let’s get started:

7 Oils To Spice Up The Bedroom

1. Clove

  • Simulates circulation
  • Hormone balancer
  • Increases blood flow
  • Warming

2. Sandalwood

  • Uplifting properties
  • Enhances mood
  • Induces a state of calmness

3. Black Pepper

  • Boost energy and stamina (apply to the bottom of the feet)
  • Supports healthy circulation
  • Can be diffused

4. Bergamot

  • Reduces tension and stress
  • Lessens sad and anxious feelings

5. Wild Orange

  • Invigorates and enhances mood (especially blended with peppermint)
  • Uplifting to the mind and body

6. Cypress

  • Soothes tight, tense muscles
  • Supports localized blood flow

7. Ylang Ylang

  • Helps to lessen tension and stress
  • Helps balance hormones
  • Lifts mood while having a calming effect
  • Promotes a positive outlook
Before we hop into the recipes, one thing to note, these are for “testing” it out to see if you like the recipe in small batches first. If you like it, triple the oil drops in the recipe and add to a 115mL/3.8 oz pump bottle FCO or jojoba oil. Additionally, if you're wanting to apply in ANY sensitive area, place oil mixture on your fingers and then apply onto those areas.

Spice Up Your Sex Life (Recipe #1)

  • 5mL. UpCycled essential oil bottle, fill 3/4 with Fractionated Coconut Oil (FCO), jojoba oil, or sweet almond oil.
  • 2-10 drops Ylang Ylang (for attraction)
  • 5 drops Lavender (for calming)
  • 3 drops Peppermint (desire a longer sensation? Use more peppermint)
  • 3 drops Clove (if you want a warmer outcome - use more clove)
  • 3 drops Cypress (for cooling longevity and stimulation)
  • 2 drops Geranium (for increase stimulation and attraction)
  • 2 Drops Melaleuca (soothes minor skin irritations)
  • 1-2 drops Wild Orange (for happy aroma and calming)
Apply generously as a massage oil to the thighs, hips, or use as a lubricant (but apply onto your fingers and then place in sensitive areas).

Let's Get Serious -Clitoral Arousal

No matter your age, getting a quick response is always stimulating. To help you out, here are some botanical mixtures using tried and true, pure essential oils from dōTERRA.

You can make small batches using old 5 mL bottles or old 10mL. roller bottles.

Let’s start with a clitoral stimulant first, shall we?

Sexy Recipe #2

5mL. UpCycled essential oil bottle, fill 3/4 with Fractionated Coconut Oil (FCO), jojoba oil, or sweet almond oil.

  • 2 drops Cinnamon or Cassia (warming/arousing)
  • 3 drops Pink Pepper or Black Pepper. Pink is best (warming/arousing)
  • 5 drops Sandalwood (calming)
  • 5 drops Cananga (sexy/arousing)
  • 10 drops Wild Orange (uplifting)
  • 10 drops Vetiver (grounding/sexy)


Apply generously hip to hip, thighs and clitoral area. The more the merrier...Enjoy, relax and have fun.

Sexy Recipe #3

  • 5mL. UpCycled essential oil bottle, fill 3/4 with Fractionated Coconut Oil (FCO), jojoba oil, or sweet almond oil.
  • 5 drops Bergamot (happy/calming)
  • 2 drops Peppermint (arousing/stimulating)
  • 10 drops Neroli (sexy/happy/arousing)
  • 5 drops Ylang Ylang (sexy/arousing)


Apply generously to the thighs and clitoral/penal areas. Be generous!

Enjoy, relax and have fun.

Super Sexy Oils Recipe #4

My favorite! So much so, I created this in a 115mL/3.8 oz pump bottle of FCO, It’s sooo super sexy, but for this recipe, you'll want to start with a 5mL roller bottle.
  • 5mL roller bottle
  • 5 drops Yarrow|Pom (grounding/arousing)
  • 5 drops Cananga (sexy/arousing)
  • 7 drops Douglas Fir (arousing/grounding/stimulating)
  • 3 drops Cypress (stimulating)
  • 1 drops Fennel (stimulating)
  • 1-2 drops Pink Pepper or Black Pepper. Pink is best (warming/arousing)


Apply generously hip to hip, thighs and clitoral/penal areas for pleasure centered excitement. The more the merrier... Enjoy, relax and have fun.
Sensation will buzz, then cool and sing for you. Literally!

As I said before, aside from their sexy scent, these love potions can help increase libido and enhance performance in both men and women. yes, essential oils for the win!!

If you find one that you really really love, you can always pop it in a spray bottle, and use it as a linen spray. Apply 10-minutes before action will be pursued... you could even use it with a bit of foreplay, it’s your creation. Enjoy the journey babe!

Likewise, if you like it as a cologne or perfume, pop it in a roller bottle, and keep it as your secret arousal weapon.

Another very powerful essential oil that doTERRA has that’s extremely helpful is, Passion. Made with Fractionated Coconut Oil, Cardamom Seed, Cinnamon Bark, Ginger Rhizome, Clove Bud, Sandalwood Wood, Jasmine Flower Absolute, Vanilla Bean Absolute, Damiana Leaf, a lot of people love it, laugh now, but, it’s actually not my favorite. However, many, many people have amazing results with this!

So, friends...have at it if you’ve got it in your cupboard or oil box, give it a go. Just make sure that you dilute so you can enjoy your time together!

Before you go, I’m going to give you one of the best tips of all, literally it’s the best TIP ever! Use it wisely, and be very very frugal with this suggestion.
dōTERRA has a special creme called Deep Blue Rub. It’s cooling, tingly and incredible for muscle relief. However, when used in the TINIEST bit at the base of a penis, the magic is endless. I mean it when I say...USE THE TINIEST BIT!!! Do not say I didn’t warn you, because I did.

If you are super sensitive, please apply a bit of FCO on the penis before applying you're VERY frugal, TEENY-TINY spot of deep blue rub at the base of the penal shaft.

What I have found is that essential oils really reduce stress and elevate mood, promoting increased feelings of sensuality and energy. They are botanically designed to speak 'body'. Mother Nature knows best, put her to the test and tell us all about your success. 

Please feel free to comment below if you have any questions in regards to these oils or any other thoughts that you may have, I would love to hear from you. 

Comments (6)


Stacy Krieger

Mar 16, 2023 11:44 AM EST

Can these be blended or modified to taste? Meaning what do these taste like? Are they ok to ingested? Or if I add some to a lube?


Sharon McDonald

Mar 21, 2023 11:06 AM EST

Yes, Citrus Bliss (like a cream cicle) in particular. However, these oil combinations are based on specific pleasure points. Modify to your liking. YES YES YES many doTERRA essential oils CAN be ingested ?? They are the purest, most tested, and certified essential oils on the market today. There is a nutrition label on every bottle that will tell you what can or cannot be ingested. All of v the oils in this article CAN be ingested. To further support you, here’s a great ebook on Internal Use Of Essential Oils for you to learn more. Stay in touch, and Thank You for reaching out Stacy??


Cami Bird

Feb 13, 2020 01:45 PM EST

Updated with where to apply!



Feb 12, 2020 11:11 PM EST

No directions on how to use this?


Cami Bird

Feb 13, 2020 01:45 PM EST

Updated with how to use them!



Feb 12, 2020 08:30 PM EST

So where do you apply the oils

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